ten years on , glitter 's victim tells how shamed star 's abuse ruined her life .
had sex with her three times when she was just 11 and a virgin .
he paid £ 9 each time .
fiend faced death penalty for child rape , but paid victims ' families to get off .
given just three-year jail term for the lesser charge of child abuse .
victim bravely spoke exclusively to mailonline to tell of her heartache .